Friday, November 5, 2010

Blog Hop and Follow

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Book Blogger Hop

This week's question
What are your feelings on losing followers? Have you ever stopped following a blog?

Losing followers is why I no longer require follows in a contest.  I did the first time and many un-followed me about two minutes after I announced a winner. Just human nature, and I learned from that.  In my second contest I did not require follows it and actually got quite a few more followers than before. 

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But, initially a loss bugs me — did I do something wrong?  Why did they leave me? Then I get over it. Really, unless you are very personal in your blog and ask to have a very personal relationship with the followers you can't take it personally. I do try to think if I did anything outrageous recently. But normally I don't lose sleep over it. When I was in college and working in retail I had a boss who told me that you can't please everyone, and I have since figured out that it's not always about me.


One thing I try to remember is that people are visiting and following the blog not me.

And, I have to say I have unfollowed blogs myself. If I discover some agenda that the blog is promoting, or if it goes another way to or a genre that doesn't help me in my blogging. 

Visiting: I would like to say I visit each blog link every day.  I look through the new post list and pick what interests me that day and then I flip through the blogs somewhat randomly. I do have a few I visit daily or weekly.  

At Parajukee's View Follow My Book Blog Friday the featured blogger this week is Bibliophile Book Blog and today's question is
Who are your favorite authors?

 





My glib answer would be that my favorite was whoever I finished reading.  But, my faves are Patty Briggs, Charlaine Harris, Sharon Kay Penman, Diana Gabaldon, Laurell K. Hamilton, Chris Bohjalian, Julia Rachel Barrett.

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15 comments:

Theresa @ TheCreativeWell said...

Hi there! Found you though the hop and love your blog! I'll be back :)

Melissa (Books and Things) said...

I love the way you wrote this one out. I'm already a follower and stopped by to say HI!

I couldn't whittle the list down to a few so I couldn't answer the question. :)

Midnyte Reader said...

Hi, I'm a follower but thought I'd hop by. I only stated that followers could get extra entries in 2 contests I had so far...but I usually don't in my contests. I much prefer comments.

Keep up the great blogging! : )

Julia Barrett said...

Thank you Steph...I'm speechless! That is some company you've got me with there! I adore Sharon Kay Penman. I also love Guy Gavriel Kay and so many other authors that I just don't even know how to answer the question!

luv46kdz said...

Hey Miss Steph, how's all by you? Would you believe we had a darn heatwave, which makes my east coast blood boil, no pun intended ;) it was in the 90's all week! Not fall weather at all.

Gonna be doing some work on the house this wkend time to do another room. Have a good one

Paula
Tomes Devotee

Jessica said...

It upsets me too. I'm more of a low grade unknown blogger so when I hit over 100 I was ecstatic! But then the other day I even noticed I lost one. But then today I gained 2. But still it kind of hurts. I try not to take it personally either.

I try not to unfollow a blog. Even if I'm not a daily visitor, I still drop by every now and then just to say hi or something.

Here's my hop: http://jessica-agreatread.blogspot.com/2010/11/book-blogger-hop.html

Claire @ YA Bookie Monster said...

Just stopping by through Follow Friday! I really like your blog! I'm a new follower!

Claire @ YA Bookie Monster

N. R. Williams said...

I have only stopped visiting one person and that is because she posted something so offensive to me I couldn't go back. She basically called me stupid because of my fantasies premise. But I just took her off my blog roll. I have since learned that she has serious 'Foot In Mouth Disease.' I actually don't know how to un-follow. I have accidentally followed some people twice and feel bad about messing up their stats. Oh well. I'm a slow learner when it comes to computer stuff.
I put your contest on my blog along with some others, including my very first contest. Hope it helps.
Nancy
N. R. Williams, fantasy author

Steph said...

Hey there! Thank you all for stopping by. I am going to try to zip around the hop. I have family visiting and more getting in late - craziness!

Anita said...

Steph,
you've inspired me not to "require" follows for giveaways anymore -- I have been having problems with that for a while now, and I'm glad that you were so forthcoming about your experiences vis a vis followers. Yours has been the most reflective post that I've read so far, and I love your reviewing style! I'm also intrigued by your notion of an award-free blog :-)

Cheers!
Darkeva

Maidenveil said...

Hi, Steph! Just dropping by from the hop. Initially too losing even just follower bugs me but then I get to be objective and realize it's part of blogging. Even me as a follower can unfollow a blog of many reasons.

Have a nice weekend!

-Len of Musings of a Reader Happy

Kah Woei said...

Just saying Hi from the Hop. And I understand that feeling about trying to separate myself from my blog. :-)

Julie Anne Lindsey said...

Thanks for the follow. I love the idea of a blog hop and meeting new bloggers :) I am now a new follower of your blog too!

Danielle @ Romance Book Junkies said...

Hello,
I'm making my rounds on the Blog Hop and Follow Friday too say hello and share the love. I really try to be a faithful follower that visits often but I don't always have the time to comment like I should. I hope you have a spectacular weekend and Happy Reading.

I'm a old follower.
Romance Book Junkies

Steph said...

Thank you all for coming by. We had a big weekend party for my five-oh with forty people at a restaurant. I had family in town and then lost my voice. Then we had a surprise Nor'easter that has blown out power. Commenting on the iPad is slow, so; Posting even slower. Hope to come back tomorrow.

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