Thursday, April 29, 2010

Ley Lines: Something to Think About

Back to New England from Florida.  Although my sister's house is beautiful with a gorgeous screen porch where I could sit for hours and hours and read, there is something wonderful about coming home.

One thing that I find interesting being a devotee of fantasy and being married to a physicist is that I like to see the points where reality and fantasy or sci-fi intersect (ex. Heisenberg’s Uncertainty Principle and Star Trek). 

I have been coming across the concept of Ley Lines ( pronounced Lays Lines) a lot of late.  They are mentioned, perhaps not by name in the Outlander series, in Torchwood, apparently in the Vampire Diaries, Dresden Chronicles, and in the latest series I am reading by Kim Harrison, The Hollows. I think they are mentioned in Laurel K. Hamilton's Fever series and the Highlander series.  So, judging on how adopted they are in the literature and in some TV, I thought they were known as an ancient phenomenon.  They seem tied to crop circles, Nazca, Buckingham Palace and Stonehenge among other locations.

A bit of research revealed that they were first proposed in the 1920's.
Ley lines are alleged alignments of ancient sites or holy places, such as stone circles, standing stones, cairns, and churches. Interest in ley lines began with the publication in 1922 of Early British Trackways by Alfred Watkins (1855-1935), a self-taught amateur archaeologist and antiquarian.  http://www.skepdic.com/leylines.html

Disappointingly,  this was the most cogent description of the concept I found and it occurs in Robert Carroll's the Skeptic's Dictionary "a website and a book. Each features definitions, arguments, and essays on topics ranging from acupuncture to zombies, and provides a lively, commonsense trove of detailed information on things supernatural, paranormal, and pseudoscientific." http://www.skepdic.com/

My friend Shannon gave me a book, "The Witch Book"  by Raymond Buckland, which tells me much the same with out the skepticism, however. According to this book Watkins actually invented the pinhole camera (I thought it was invented by the Renaissance painters) and he showed that there was a "vast network of straight lines [that] crisscrossed Britain and aligned large numbers of ancient sites, standing stones and burial mounds." Watkins proposed that similar lines existed in other parts of the world.  These lines are thought to indicate subtle earth energies.  In The Hollows series they are sources aof power that connect to another realm, the ever after and are used by "ley-line witches."
Something I read suggested that lines radiated from hot spots (volcanoes, hot springs) and that the mid point was a point of power.

My general philosophy is that I only know that I don't know or "there are more things in heaven and earth" than are dreamed of in my philosophy, so I am not poo-pooing this idea.  I think that there are probably ancient locations, imbued by practice or whatever, that are more conducive to conducting spiritual energy than are other spots.  One such location these days is Sedona.  It may be that people feel so at one with themselves and the universe in that location that they are able to better harness their energies than they can in their office on 5th Avenue. Is it because aliens (Nazca), the Goddess, the God, a god, magnetic forces empowered that location?  Or is it because it is stunning, peaceful, inspiring like Stonehenge, or filled with the hopes of thousands of individuals who have come before me?  I have no idea.

The picture of Stonehenge at Midsummer (left ) from Nordisk familjebok are supposed to show the ley line described by the Mid-summer sun (solstice?)  from a marker at Stonehenge.(Wikipedia Commons)

I would guess that the feeling that there were these points or paths of energy long before Mr. Watkins wrote it down in the early 1920s.  There are surely hard things to explain about certain areas.  Was it only political that one temple superseded another on the same location.  Did power confer belief or does belief confer power?  I read a book once, Sarum, that  hinted that straight and powerful lines were caused by lightning being attracted to very straight Roman roads which often contained metal filings. Like I said - I only know that I don't know.

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Still in Florida True Blood Mini-sodes

The stomach flu has held me captive an extra day down here in Florida.  But, there are now very fun True Blood Mini-Sodes set to promote the series third season starting up on HBO on June 13. In the clip embedded above, Eric and Pam audition some interesting new acts for the club Eric owns.

Most people with an interest in this genre, are probably familiar with the True Blood series based on Charlaine Harris's Sookie Stackhouse novels.  I am looking forward to the next installment of both.  The TV series is based on but doesn't follow the books story-lines.  After an initial shock, I realized that repetition of the books would lead to a short-lived series.  It is always interesting to see what choices the TV series team make in interpreting the story.  In the books, Lafayette is killed fairly early on, but in the series he is the cook, and very stylish.    Indeed, I would love to see some of his make-up tips.In the books, the character clogging up most of Season 2, Maryanne the Maenad, has a much smaller part to play.

For True Blood and Sookie fans, May 4 is also exciting as Charlaine Harris' next book, Dead in the Family will be out.  In the book and teleplay, we are awaiting information on whether Vampire Bill lives or dies as his future is poised to go either way but for different reasons.

One aspect of the series last year that I found very disappointing was the Vampire Queen of Louisiana as played by Evan Rachel Wood, an actress so poorly cast in this role that it was dismaying to watch -- or it could be she is not a good actor.  Charlaine Harris described the queen as a lady, but Ms.Wood played her as a sexually hungry bi floozy.  I would have expected someone with more gravitas than this young and silly child in the role.


Alan Ball recently revealed that a new were-creature will be making an appearance to help solve a mystery. I am wondering if more of Sookie's powers and origins are revealed.

Well, as much as I love the surreal, the real is that I have been down with a stomach flu and a nap calls.  Check out the Sookie Stackhouse series, It's lots of fun and the series is nit repetitious as some are. And check out the promo-mini sodes!

Saturday, April 24, 2010

The Final Eclipse Trailer is Here

Even though I am "on vacation" in Florida (with broken A/C) I noticed that the final trailer for Eclipse is out.  Here's a link: http://www.eclipsethemovie.com/.  I watched it among the cacophony of my family and our myriad crises so it wasn't the most important thing going on, but it did show me some glimpses of what will be happening.  Lots of action, some romance.  Lots of CGI.  I am really, really looking forward to seeing the movie as it helps me keep the characters going. A few changes but not too many that I could tell.

Otherwise, still reading the same book. Trying to tune out my relatives' constant chatter makes for slow reading.   It's hard when you work from home to get used to people talking all day.

Hope where ever you are the weather is fine.  I am going to sit out on the screen porch and pray for A/C.

Friday, April 23, 2010

Twilight Zone

It feels a bit Paranormal here in FL.  It is only slightly warmer than New England was this week.  But somehow at home I doubt I wouls be sunburned after walking wayyyyyy too far on a beach with my husband.  Anyway, I lived in FL for a year when I was first married and I must be too stuck in my ways because it has always seemed a bit too much as if it is in another dimension.

Reading "Little Rituals" by Denise Weeks.  I have a feeling it is about to go all religious on me but I could be wrong.   The main character is under a cloud of bad luck; cursed even  She accompanies all of life with small ritual behaviors that could be causing problems magically or could just be OCD. More later I need to put something on my sunburn!

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

Give Me a KIss: Fairy Tales as Chick Lit.

The other day I started to talk about Paranormal Chick Lit, It was said that modern Chick lit goes back to two adaptations of Jane Austen novels, Clueless and Bridget Jones Diary. But, thinking about it for a couple of days I have come to believe that Paranormal Chick Lit goes back much farther – according to some scholars over 2,200 years. To be sure, scholars have spent lots of time and grant money looking for the reasons that fairy tales have common themes worldwide.

Chick lit also has common themes: Usually:

  • The main Character is a young woman, although it does go up to characters in their sixties (usually they are starting over). From my experience it is either a woman with skills, education and a good job, or women with some qualifications but is not as successful as she could be. Sometimes it is a group of close friend characters.

  • Usually, the young woman is either in search of a relationship, waiting for a man to commit and/or in a break up. There is a sense of dissatisfaction that often arises from this relationship search/break-up/lack of commitment.  

  • While dealing with this personal or professional angst, and often approaching difficult issues, Chick lit is often written with a light and humorous hand.

So Jane Austen was all about this young woman, searching for a husband. She was so good at it that contemporary writers were able to apply it to today’s young women. Miss Austen was an amazing character painter. I see her characters every day. But I contend that Chick Lit began many years and cultures before this past decade.

A Fairy Tale is by its very nature a paranormal story, often a parable. To prove my point I am going to turn to the Princess and the Frog. This story is sometimes about keeping promises. Sometimes a story is just a story.

The princess, as a royal, has a job, sort of in the way royals have jobs either as rulers or mediators or just a sort of symbolic representation for their nation. Often, the princess is underemployed.

In the universe occupied by fairy tales, the princess always seeks a husband. Preferably one who is or who will become a king.

The dissatisfaction in her life is evident by her lying about sighing near a rustic or garden pool. Miraculously she meets the be-spelled talking frog — really a prince! — Who is no doubt attracted by her melancholic sighs. Sometimes the princess bargains with the frog and then refuses to honor the bargain until forced to do so. Other times, especially in contemporary versions, the frog needs to be kissed. In either case he turns into a prince and they live happily ever after. In the first case where the princess is refusing to honor a promise, the tale has a serious morality component. In the latter case the princess is forced to look beyond the slimy suitor to the Prince he could become. In the days of yore, the stories were much scarier than their Disney-fied contemporary counterparts. So now they are usually more or less light an amusing with some dark patches.

I believe that Cinderella fits the mold, as does Sleeping beauty. The next time you read a fairy tale or watch a filmed version, remember the supposition that these are really old, passed down orally for millennia, and yet still teach the life lessons they imparted earlier.

What do you think? I would love to know.




I will be vacationing for the next few days. And while I sit on the beach I will be reading some paranormal Chick lit. When I am back next week I will talk more about it. Have a great weekend.illus.

Illustration> 09-02-09 © Song Speckels through istockphoto

Tuesday, April 20, 2010

Hey, what would you like to know more about on the paranormal?  What should I read (right now, reading Undead and Unwed) ? What is your favorite paranormal or sci-fi flick?

What do you think about paranormal chick lit?  I have started thinking its origins are much earlier than Bridget Jones' Diary  -- a century or two.....

I want to write about stuff that interests you.

Ciao!

Sunday, April 18, 2010

Battle of the Network Zombies




You know I am a sucker for free and cheap.  So, if there is something remotely interesting in the Amazon "free" queue for Kindle, I am "buying" it.

That's how I came across Mark Henry's Battle of the Network Zombies. It reads mostly like Chick Lit.  which I said in my last post is generally written by women for women.  Well, generally doesn't mean always, and in the more important ways this book fits the bill. This book is about a former advertising executive who has become a zombie and turned several friends into zombies as well.  Less comprehensible is why her Mom and a gay male friend are vampires.
On Amazon.com Publishers Weekly states:
Clever, fast-paced, and so delightfully trashy that it should have been printed on Hefty bags, Henry's third Amanda Feral novel (after 2009's Road Trip of the Living Dead) smartly skewers popular culture. Henry gleefully delivers a sharp-edged, snarky whodunit with some smart and funny twists. (Mar.)
Copyright © Reed Business Information, a division of Reed Elsevier Inc. All rights reserved.

My Take:
Snarky:  Yup they got that one right. 

Clever:   in a way that insults my intelligence and senses. The most clever things in the book are the abilities of the wood nymph character to manipulate the plants to his bidding and an interesting form of blasphemous phraseology (Christ on a Cracker).  Please note, it is not my religious side that calls these blasphemous but society.
Not so clever in its unnecessary gore, and inconsistencies about what zombies can and can not do or feel.

Fast paced:  I finished it quickly just to get through it, but it is filled with frantic and confusing action. Also fast paced, because you don't get much in the way of back story. And much of it needs the support of the back story. Without the back story there is just not that much to read.

So Delightfully trashy that it should have been printed on Hefty bags
This book felt like an afterthought to the first two, which I have not read and except for  delightfully,  the reviewer has the trashy part pegged. Now, I like my trashy books.  They are a guilty little secret (not anymore I guess), but to be trashy and get away with it an author has to make me care about the characters.  These characters have no redeeming qualities; they are about as likeable as Updike's "Witches of Eastwick."  So it it's not just that it is trashy; I am known to enjoy books so trashy I turn my Kindle off if someone starts to ask what I am reading.  Battle of the Network Zombies is trashy in a way that would make me turnmy Kindle off because I would be embarrassed to be caught reading it -  not because the contents made me blush but because it is trashy like Homer Simpson at Hooters.

Any character/relationship development, say between the main character, Amanda Feral, and her boyfriend Scott, a Wolf Shifter,  must occur off screen because I don't see it.  There is no reason why, outside of intercourse, the characters are together, have sex, break up or get back together. Plus, the character describes her rotting repulsiveness as a Zombie in one breath and her breathtaking figure and beauty in another.  She has no remorse in killing humans for food and brags about doing it in poor neighborhoods where the population is comprised of poor immigrants and day laborers. Great,  I am sure she would be a hit on Fox News.
 
Note to authors: In selling books on Kindle, make the first one in the series free.  It is usually the one that makes us clamor for more and then we'll at least buy the next one.  If, like with this, you make the last on free, you have just lost two sales. It may also be a good way to learn if you should write the series or cut your losses and go back to tending bar.

So,  on the Chick-Scale I give this three rotten eggs. If I had not gotten it for free I would be cursing myself for wasting the money.

Saturday, April 17, 2010

Paranormal Chick LIt

Completely of subject: Ouch! Just came across a show Psychic Kids: Children of the Paranormal on the Bio.HD network. Watched it for 5 minutes before realizing it is total crap.

Back to my subject Yes, the bubblegum of literature: chick lit. Recently I have been noting that there are many types of literature within the fantasy or paranormal genres: horror (not my thing - if I want to be frightened I can watch the news), then there's romance/erotica, steampunk (gotta look into that), mystery, well, you get the idea, writers are mixing and mashing genre's in an effort to keep us amused and reading.

Some people point to Twilight as the inception of renewed interest in the paranormal in books, but I think it is more of a sign that it's where we are at. But I see the mix of chick lit and paramnormal

Chick Lit: light-hearted, fun, happy endings.

The earliest books recognized as Chick Lit were based on Jane Austen – and who doesn’t love Jane? At the time Ms. Austen penned her tomes, novels were considered frivolous, sometimes immoral and certain to send young women into unwise flights of fancy that could lead to un-marriageability! Ms. Austen’s own Northanger Abbey was based on this theme. There was even a mysterious, if not paranormal, aspect to it.

According to Wikipedia’s entry on Chick lit, which cites several professors, Jane Austen and the Bronte’s wrote the Chick Lit for their time.

On www.chicklitbooks.com, which one would expect to be the authority on it's eponymously referenced subject, they discuss the entire genre as well as subsets:

..., Chick lit is a genre comprised of books that are mainly written by women for women. The books range from having main characters in their early 20’s to their late 60’s. There is usually a personal, light, and humorous tone to the books. Sometimes they are written in first-person narrative; other time they are written from multiple viewpoints. The plots usually consist of women experiencing usual life issues, such as love, marriage, dating, relationships, friendships, roommates, corporate environments, weight issues, addiction, and much more.

So how does that differ from regular woman’s fiction, you might be wondering? Well, it’s all in the tone. Chick lit is told in a more confiding, personal tone. It’s like having a best friend tell you about her life. Or watching various characters go through things that you have gone through yourself, or witnessed others going through. Humor is a strong point in chick lit, too. Nearly every chick lit book I have read has had some type of humor in it. THAT is what really separates chick lit from regular woman’s fiction. http://chicklitbooks.com/what-is-chick-lit/

Wikipedia posits three books began the chick-lit phenomenon Terry Macmillan’s Waiting to Exhale and H.B. Gilmour’s Clueless were both released in 1995. In 1996 what I believe to be the most popular and famous book, Helen Fielding’s Bridget Jones Diary hit the shops.

Clueless was based on Austen’s Emma and of course Bridget Jones was based on Pride and Prejudice. In the movie starring Renee Zellwegger and Colin Firth, Mr. Firth played Mark Darcy who he also played in the very popular BBC production of Pride and Prejudice.

After reading the Twilight series I was looking for what an adult would read next. One friend suggested The Sookie Stackhouse series, and I read a few of those, then Katie MacAlister’s series (begun 1n 2003 with a Girl’s Guide to Vampires) made reminded me of something, that was followed by the newer Molly Harper novels “Nice Girls Don’t…” series.

Now, let’s remember, light and fun. I am on the fence about Charlaine Harris’ Sookie series. I think it is a bit too much on the side of darkness and offers too much violence. Twilight, nu-uh, first of all, it is written to a YA audience, not women between their twenties and sixties and sure as heck, not light.

Hey, that's probably enough to make you read at one time.   I will be resuming this conversation as I continue to read and look at the whole subject.  Do you have a book you think of as Paranormal Chick Lit.?  I would love to know about it.  


Photo:  http://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:More_chicks.jpg Agricultural Research Service, the research agency of the United States Department of Agriculture.

Friday, April 16, 2010

Tarot and a Strange Deck - What do you know?

Yesterday's post got me thinking about Tarot. I had a deck of Tarot cards when I was younger and my father would not allow their use because he thought they were witchcraft.

My Sister gave me a set of strange, antique cards from the Casa Editrice Bietti in Milano, an important publishing house there, that I have never figured out. They have writing in Italian and Spanish designating the tarot symbol, Hebrew (I think) symbols, the tarot arcana, regular suite playing cards And between the two Hebraic symbols a picture that looks hand drawn and could be Egyptian. 

From one of my former incarnations in this physical body, I know that Tarot and playing cards are related to each other, thus the Seven of Swords being the Seven of Spades doesn't surprise me.  But, I don't know what one would call this - Multipurpose Game and Fortune Telling Cards? Were the different indicators aligned with each other, that is, does the Seven of Swords mean what the Hebrew symbol on that card means? 

Does anyone out there have any idea or have you seen cards like this before?  I would love to know more!

Thursday, April 15, 2010

Shadowfever News & Remember? TV Series

Karen Marie Moning announced that the next installment in the Fever series will be moved up to December 7 from the end of that month.  Yay!  These are books I cannot put down and my husband simply gives up conversing with me while I read these.  One of the people she works with, Mia, is making a set of tarot cards that will be produced -- look for contest news!

This is a quick post I am working on something more involved and it is taking time to research and read about.


Under the heading of "Pop Culture"  I was thinking about I Dream of Jeannie and Bewitched recently.  Both were totally fluffy tv series from the 1960s in which a woman with magical powers was admonished against using them.  For the husband in Bewitched it was because her creation of something other than a baby or dinner damaged his manly pride.  On I Dream of Jeannie it was usually the case that her exercise of her powers generally got her modern-day, astronaut-master Tony Nelson in trouble with the Air Force or NASA. Strangely Tony and Jeannie lived together several seasons before marrying - what a scandal.  And how interesting to mix the space age and the paranormal. The entire show was places in Cape Canaveral and Cocoa Beach Florida and I worked in Cocoa Beach (if you can call working in a pay-for-placement employment agency in a huge recession "work").  Boy, have times changed!  My husband would be all over me using magical powers if there were no blood-price to pay -- white magic of course.  Too bad I have none. And that is a big part of my fascination with this stuff - I wish, wish, wish that I could! 
The movie "Bewitched," released a few tears ago was a bomb. 
I was embarrassed for the actors in it.

I think both series are occasionally in syndication it is groovy culture shock!

Were there other series or movies where a woman had a magical ability that a man didn't like her to use?  Let me know what you think, please.

Above photo, Barbara Eden as Genie, located on Bing. 

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

What's Paranormal Anyway? Does Avatar FIt??

I was just pre-ordering my copy of the Blu-Ray/DVD of Avatar by James Cameron an amazing movie and I was thinking could I justify writing about this in my blog?  Is Avatar, a Science Fiction film, a Paranormal film and then what constitutes "Paranormal."

Avatar is SciFi in that it uses aspects of space travel and scientific procedures which do not currently exist to tell a story. Some science fiction, but not all, is or includes the paranormal. According to enotes,
Fantasy - extravagant and unrestrained imagination. In writing, it is used to denote a literary work in which the action occurs in a nonexistent and unreal world (such as fairyland) or to a selection that involves incredible characters. (http://www.enotes.com/literary-terms/fantasy)
Science fiction and paranormal are overlapping subsets of the fantasy genre.  Wikipedia lumps all three under the heading "speculative fiction," a term attributed to Robert Heinlein.

I think Avatar is a technically amazing science fiction movie with paranormal aspects: ex. on the moon where the film is placed, Pandora,  there are a people,  the Na'Vi, who revere and live with a Tree of Souls and their Tree of Voices. In the universe Cameron has created in Avatar,the Na'vi relate to what we experience as paranormal as a totally natural part of life. The Na'vi mother goddess Eywa, is a parallel  to Gaia, or the live earth.  And this Na'Vi sensitivity and understanding of their world and it's visible power manifested all about them, is one of Avatar's main messages. The air on Pandora is toxic to humans, and I think it represents the paradox of a world like Pandora to the humans working on it.  Ultimately, doesn't the paranormal require a paradigm shift while you are emerged in it? And, doesn't that help us learn about ourselves?

What we see as paranormal at best, and as hippie nonsense, the Na'Vi embrace as their primary existence. Indeed, the crux of the tale is the imposition of human insensitivity into this world, because the human's cannot believe that the Na'Vi belief is anything but primitive nonsense.  Having trashed our world, the human's on Pandora seem intent on imposing their lack of sensitivity on Pandora. It is the human lack of belief or closed-mindedness that endangers this other world.

Pleasantly, it is not science that is the enemy to Pandora.  If anything, the lead scientist, Grace's study of the planet and  culture has lead her to  believe in the spirit of the planet as much as the natives do.  I had a professor who used to say that all science was magic before we understood it.  I don't believe the two exclude each other.

There are many other aspects of Avatar that are paranormal, including the world's ability to save a life by transferring a human consciousness to a Na'Vi body, small creatures who "bless" certain characters, and its ability to captivate a human audience.  The technical aspect of the film is so amazing that it reads as real, and allows us to open our minds to this world where the people understand their part in the life of their planet.

Oh, and yes, it has enough magic for me to talk about it.  The DVD will be out on April 22.


Photo:  fair use in review of film, http://www.wired.com/underwire/2009/07/details-emerge-about-avatars-free-sneak-peek/, Twentieth Century Fox

Monday, April 12, 2010

Subtle Magic

I was enchanted by Sarah Addison Allen's first book, Garden Spells about, ostensibly, a family of women and a new neighbor with undertones of edible flowers and catering, a kind of emotional curandera.  It was subtly magical, with a tiny bit of the feeling of Hoffman's Practical Magic.


So, when I saw a new book by her later at the library in town, The Sugar Queen,  I took it home as well.  It too was floating in wondrous magic of food and sweetness. I devoured it like the lead character devours the candy she hides from her overbearing mother.


And, I have been prowling Amazon.com since; waiting for a new book by Sarah Addison Allen. I recently spied an ad in the New York Times for The Girl Who Chased the Moon and shortly after downloaded it.  This book I am about 40% through. It also presents its magic in the everyday, and in a place where the magic is accepted as a natural part of life.  Righting the past seems to be one of the themes.  But, these are so enjoyable that I don't want to tell you any more about them  I just want to urge you to read them.  They aren't quite fantasy, there are no vampires, no wands and no fairy dust; just not-exactly-ordinary people casting about to heal themselves, or fit in.  But there is maybe a fairy godmother lurking on the side of each tale giving it just enough of the paranormal that I can slip her books in here. The books aren't YA but are innocent in a way -- there are no blood-lust, erotic scenes. Like the confections she describes the stories are sweet and make me sigh with a wish that that bit of lovely magic was more evident in the everyday.


And, on her web site (http://www.sarahaddisonallen.com/index.html) Ms. Addison shows that not all of the treats she shares are fiction. There is a lovely tableau of the candies in The Sugar Queen, articles on some of the phenomena that are part of the stories, recipes and other bits of information. 

Saturday, April 10, 2010

A Pop Culture Quickie - Fictional Engineers and Weddings

I have to assist my husband in doing some house painting, so today I am going to just note two entries of the paranormal in pop culture into  my life:

Last night we watched a two part  Medium on CBS (There Will Be Blood, Type A and Type B -- Episodes 6-17 and 6-18) Joe, an aerospace engineer married to Allison, a consulting medium for the Phoenix DA, has a bit of an issue with his super-egoistic boss Keith, who has never let anyone else on staff have or share an idea.  Keith starts ranting as if he has gone off his meds (and he has).  Joe asks him what he wants and Keith replies, "That girl in the Twilight movies, but that's not going to happen."  So Kristen Stewart can now add fictional engineers to her list of male conquests.

Joel Moore who plays Keith, is having a great run lately with this recurring role on Medium, another on Bones and a pretty big part as Norm in James Cameron's Avatar. I remember on Bones there was an episode where the character played by Moore got tickets to the premiere of Avatar in DC. Product placement????

The second thing is this great site that has a Twilight themed party. Now the thing is not that this is a Twilight party or wedding -- there are hundreds of those I am sure, but that is very nicely done.  It is in two parts with the second being reached through the "next" button.  Find it at http://www.hostessblog.com/2010/03/twilight-inspired-wedding-part-1-tablescape/.  There are other party ideas there as well.  I will be interested to see if Bella and Edward's wedding is at all similar.

I just started reading Kim Harrison's second book  in The Hollows series:  The Good the Bad and the Undead.  I haven't started talking about the series yet. And, on the lighter side of paranormal (not light as in funny but as in not dark) where the magic is usually more intuitive than conscious, the author of Garden Spells and the Sugar Queen has a new book out: The Girl Who Chased the Moon.  I am looking forward to it too.



I don't know if I will keep up daily posts, Maybe 3 or 4 times a week if it is short bits and for the longer and more involved pieces, maybe twice a week. 

Have a great weekend!

Friday, April 9, 2010

Vampire Wars

How about that Pop Culture aspect I promise.  Well, for the last two weeks I have been playing Zynga's Vampire Wars through Facebook.  I am pretty sure I am missing something. To start one takes on a name and avatar that you embellish with hair and clothes.  My character is "Simpatica."

There are several rating and points systems at work and some freakish group called the "Elders" who dole out favor points with which one can get more energy to play or cooler embellishments for the avatar.  Of course they are stingy with those because the better stuff depends on them and, you can buy the points.  I did this once, in the name of research and it was about as fluid as a pocket full of one dollar bills.

So after 2 weeks, I have four favor points having just bought a refill of energy for ten.  We have energy, rage, blood and health levels.  We have experience points and skill points.  We also win and collect skills and inventory. You lose energy but gain skill when you go on missions which increase your experience points and propel you to the next level. You gain skill but lose rage and health from combat with other vampires or with "the boss" Baba Yaga.

I have never played this type of game before. I am not sure what the point is.  You control very little, especially at the start. You pick who you attack, but not which skills you use. And, spending money to buy fake clothes for my avatar is a bit like playing paper dolls.I also lost about 5 days of boosting myself through the initiation when they upgraded the software.  Recently I lost 10 favor point but they were refunded when I complained.

Perhaps other games involve more thought and strategy. Some of the more experienced players have been helpful. My advice, play if you wish but don't spend more than $10 on favor points. For that your odds of winning something are better in Vegas.

Thursday, April 8, 2010

Faeries: Naughty, Nasty & Not So Nice (spoiler alert!)

Today I have been thinking about faeries.   Close your eyes, when you think Faerie or Fairy, for that matter, what image pops up?  Tinkerbelle?  The Fairy Godmother from Cinderella? The Flower Fairies? The Fairies above in "Fairies looking through a Gothic Arch" (John Anster Fitzgerald (1823-1906) out of copyright) are the kind we all remember from growing up.
Even if you have read a good many fantasy stories with faeries it is  a tough job to not think of those comforting, kindly creatures.  And, maybe in a fantasy land's fantasy they exist, but lately, I am not seeing much evidence of faeries being sweethearts.

Picture at right Laurell K. Hamilton
Courtesy of http://www.laurellkhamilton.org/media.html

A bit of structure:  the Faerie, Fae, and Fairy are different names for the same types of creatures, although Fae refers to them collectively and in the singular. Another word, for Fae, used by them is "Gentry,"  In the Meredith Gentry books, which I love, Fae are not just pure fairies: there are lesser fae and Sidhe or nobles. There is a light court, the "Seelie" court and a dark court "the Unseelie" court.  Light and dark seem referential on a number of levels:  the fairest of the fae, Seelie Court    denizens are lovely to look upon and are described in a way that make me think Pre-Raphaelite but petite. The Unseelie court is filled with all the more mixed types including Merry, who was the King, but took a half brownie wife and had Merry, a mortal.  He is assassinated as part of the back story.  His sister Andais, Queen of Air and Darkness, is a twisted and sick person.  Fae are darn resilient and she likes to mutilate her lovers knowing they will have to live. Sick, sick, and sicker.  The Seelie, in this series are no better morally, they are just prettier.

Merry lives in our world as a private detective. In Merry's version of our world Jefferson, yes that Jefferson, invited the fae to live in America when the European's kicked them out. Oh, she lives with a bunch of the Queen's guard. all attempting to get her pregnant. Keep a fan and a loved on to hand while you read these novels. And these are very nicely written, well proofed and edited novels.

There are even fae in the Sookie Stackhouse novels by Charlaine Harris. They are even nastier.  I won;t say too much because they don't appear in the story until the later novels.  What a shock that there are so many kind of other! The next book in the series hinges on the outcome of an altercation between the good faeries and the bad.  It is coming out soon!

Another writer, Karen Marie Moning, is deep into her own fae fever.  Her earlier book series about Scottish Highlander MacKeltars who keep the compact between the fae world and ours locked in a secret room.  The MacKeltar's are hotties indeed, and they prefer their gals with a bit more flesh than is currently in fashion.  Remember the fan and loved one from above -- keep them close.  The books do seem to get a trifle formulaic after the first few, but they are still enjoyable. And the Fae in this series are all Seelie, having locked the Unseelie away. They are still meddlesome for their entertainment.  In other words, they'll mess with you just to see you squirm.

That series seems to have lead her to the Fever Series: the story of a young bartender from Atlanta, MacKayla Lane who gets caught up in the Irish faerie world and learns she is a Sidhe Seer.  To protect themselves, fae employ glamour.  Even the unseelie fae can greatly improve their appearance with glamour A Sidhe Seer can see past glamour.  Mckayla  ends up in Dublin tryng to solve her sister's murder but she ends up nearly trodding the same path.   This series involves a brooding "other" which species we know not. Jerricho Barons is immensely well-off and has great cars: what he has in cash he lacks in social graces, but because she is a seer and can also sense items he saves Mac from some escaped unseelie nasties who are sucking the life out of Dublin. Mac ends up living in his bookstore, (A bit like a Tardis in it's interior dimensions) Barrons.  MacKayla is bedeviled as well by what she calls a "Death-by-Sex" fae, V'Lane.  Appaarantly once you have a fae lover no other will do and you will become obsessed.  There is a lot of "almost-sex" with V'lane, some posturing with Barrons but things get more interesting after a bit. Both men want MacKayla to lead them to a millenia old book of evil that is become a living entity on its own.  It is loose somewhere in Ireland and the very pact that holds the Unseelie at bay is about to come smashing down on Dublin. Frustratingly, the next book in this hard to put down series is not out until December 28, 2010.  You can read some excerpts at her website http://www.karenmoning.com/about/index.html.

On TV, Torchwood  a Doctor Who spin-off from the BBC  had the most memorable bunch of faeries and perhaps the first glimpse some might have of their nastier, murderous and kidnapping nature.In the episode, "Small Worlds," the fae are quite ugly and chant the following, poem by Yeats. .
"Come away, O human child!
To the waters and the wild
With a faery, hand in hand,
For the world's more full of weeping than you can understand."
(excerpt from "The Stolen Child", a poem by W. B. Yeats  
Check out the hideous faerie from the series:
This image is of a screencap of the television series "Torchwood", it is intended for use in the Wikipedia article "Small Worlds (Torchwood)" to visually aid and provide critical commentary in describing a key moment. This image was capped by Khaosworks from an episode of the television series "Torchwood"  2006-11-1Copyrighted, fair use claimed. This fellow is not someone you would like your sister to bring home.  All in all there is more to the Fae than pink wings gauzy hats and  granting you a wish. There is a deep tradition and then there are fairy tales - once truly cautionary, now just stories with a morale but with the bite removed. As we read the fun and exciting and sometimes titillating fantasy books that you probably enjoy since you are reading this, it is always interesting to look a bit deeper. 

Wednesday, April 7, 2010

Outlander Series - What's All the Fuss About?

It is a gorgeous day here in New England; but I am inside reading free books, stories and excerpts on a site http://bittenbybooks.com/. Am I crazy telling you about other sites; no, I think if I give you info you want you will appreciate it.   Besides, I am sure you don't want to just read my ideas all the time.

And, I am pretty sure you want to hear about other ideas and genres than just Vampires.  So, I was thinking about one of my favorite series, Diana Gabaldon's Voyager series.  Last fall saw the release of the seventh in this long-lived series, An Echo in The Bone.  I think I first read the original novel, Outlander.  in 1994. It was originally published in 1991. And, there are few series I will buy at new release prices for Kindle or in hardcover.  These I will (of course then I have to watch the Kindle price drop on a weekly basis. Aside from a great, hot romance these are really well researched and discuss life the way we do.  Questions you may have thought of about the past are answered candidly.

The main female character, Claire is strong in this series, but I must say it is the man, Jamie Fraser who will steel your breath.  Back then we used to say that Mel Gibson would have been the perfect actor to play Jamie.  But, now, it would have to be someone younger, as Jamie is in his early twenties when the series begins.  Gabaldon says she knows just what the characters look like but is not very familiar       with the actors available today (except she doesn't favor Ms. Bullock as Claire).  She points out that many of her readers are  quite sure of who should be which character and have sent many videos in to her which she has collected on her You Tube Channel.  If you have read these books and wondered yourself who would be the perfect Jamie or Claire you owe it to yourself to look -- Beannee73's is particularly on the mark. Another suggests an actor who looks an awful lot like the blond Jesus print my mother (and a good many other's) had hanging up my entire childhood.  It would be akin to thinking of your parents in the throes of passion -- that is, it would ruin the experience for me!  Isn't it a pain when you have imagined characters for so long and they cast the "wrong" actor! I am interested in your thoughts here too.

But, as the books have progressed so have the characters in age and time so while it is quite lovely that Claire and Jamie have been together through these seven books, it is now a read where passion is not the first thing about them.  They are still great fun to read but the hot spark has been snuffed by the aches and pains of people my own age. But, to have kept this going for almost 20 years, that is something to feel proud about! There is a spin off series as well: the Lord John Grey novels and a few other bits and pieces.

Diana Gabaldon's Outlander Series, snagged wholesale from her website:

  • Outlander (also titled Cross Stitch) Published: June 1, 1991
  • Dragonfly in Amber Published: July 1, 1992
  • Voyager Published: December 1, 1993
  • Drums of Autumn Published: December 30, 1996
  • The Fiery Cross Published: November 6, 2001
  • A Breath of Snow and Ashes Published: September 27, 2005
    Winner: Quill Award Winner: Corinne International Book Prize
  • An Echo in the Bone Published: September 22, 2009
  • Book eight, Outlander series No Publication Date 

Book Cover: http://66.147.244.179/~dianagab/IPK/IPK.html 

    Tuesday, April 6, 2010

    Reopening the Vein of DIscussion

    So,  yes.  what do they eat.  Obviously Vampires are a different species altogether or they have had some amazing transformation that causes a need for the consumption of blood.  In my previous post (4-5-2010) I went over Twilight and the Argeneaus as well as a few other series.

    I certainly do not profess to have read all the series or novels or to even remember each nuance of what I have read.  Partly what Vampires consume and how has to do with whether they are good beings or bad beings.  Frequency of consumption is usually dictated by age with older vampires often needing less.

    Back to good vs bad (baaaaad) vampires; good vampires either drink animal blood, take from a partner with whom they have bonded (in which case it increases sexual pleasure), take from humans but erase their memories and do not take too much.  Grey area vampires, and the grey is usually their own soul (or not) searching, find criminals and "drain" them; some also keep "pets (humans from whom they take blood but not enough to damage them).  The latter are grey because they do not consider the humans as equals but as a food source.

    Vampires who are bad, who have "blood lust" or have otherwise gone rogue, have no regard as other than a food source or herd.  They go so far as to consider themselves superior to humans and that humans do exist to serve the Vampire's needs.  Therefore they may keep a human pet, but just as easily "go too far."

    This is often the attitude in the Sookie Stackhouse series by Charlaine Harris, and it is more pronounced in the HBO series True Blood which is derived therefrom.  In this series, Japanese scientists have invented a blood substitute that sustains Vampires.  This has enabled Vampires to "come out of the coffin."  The Vampire world is divided into regions and districts and even states.  These have sherrifs, kings, queens and magisters who administer justice, But it certainly isn;t the justice we have come to expect.  In this new world where we know about Vampires there are those who only drink bottled and those who drink both but rarely if ever kill. The remaining vampires do not believe they should have come out and prefer to live and dine as they have for centuries.

     In the Brotherhood of Blood series by Kathryn Smith the first vampire in the first book, Be Mine Tonight, to whom we are introduced is "Chapel" of whom the readers learn that the "pint of pig's blood he had consumed earlier sustained and strengthened him, but it had been like eating turnip when what one really craved was chocolate.  Earlier he had had to step outside to clear the scent of human from his senses."
    Smith,  Kathryn: Be Mine Tonight, Avon 2006, Chapter 3, Location 443 - 449

    Clearly, Chapel, like Ms. Meyer's "vegetarian vampires,"  the Cullen Family, can survive on animal blood but would like a nice juicy person.  Also, Ms. Smith's cadre of vampires can eat and drink human food and not just humans.

    I first became interested in this subject on seeing some people flame Stephenie Meyer on web forums.  People seemed to believe (as I DO NOT) that she had wholesale lifted the stories out of this or that series.  I thought that perhaps there were similarities between series because there are certain questions about the creatures that are usually rather vital to the story, and among these are food and blood, and another is origin. There are other characteristics:  ability to propagate, taking a human lover or bonded mate, etc., that are common throughout the genre.  In fact it would be pretty hard for one novel or series NOT to share commonalities with others.


    Thanks so much for reading.  It is so much fun to explore these ideas.
    Stay Tuned for More of The Dining Habits of Vampires
     
    '' Members of the "Boston Direct Action Project" dressed as vampires impersonate public relations associates of the World Bank, Washington DC. *'''Source:''' The Photographer *'''Photographer:''' Matt Osborn *'''Taken: 19 April 2005 
        * License: CC-by-2.0 Photoshopped by Stephanie Takes-Desbiens, 4/6/2010

    Monday, April 5, 2010

    Who's for Dinner!

    “Ask me the most basic question, ‘What do we eat?’”


    In Twilight, the wildly successful film based on Stephenie Meyers, the Twilight Saga this is how (in paraphrase) Edward admits to Bella that his “special” diet is not because he has an autoimmune disease, or because his parents raised him on totally organic vegetables, but because he is, as she has suspected, a vampire. This scene does not occur in Twilight, the book but is part of the online draft of Midnight Sun by Stephenie Meyers an account of Twilight from Edward’s Point of View.



    Of course, as any reasonable fan of the paranormal romance genre knows, Edward and his family don’t consume human blood, although it is a struggle. They consider themselves “vegetarians,” which in this instance means they only eat (non-human) animals. And, they are also unable to digest regular food. At one point in Midnight Sun (only available online see below) Edward eats a morsel of pizza and is disgusted.



         It was as slimy and chunky and as repulsive as any human food. I chewed stiffly and 
         swallowed,  trying to keep the grimace off my face. The gob of food moved slowly and   
         uncomfortably down my throat. I sighed as I thought of how I would have to choke it 
         back up later. Disgusting.
         p. 234: www.stepheniemeyer.com/pdf/midnightsun_partial_draft4.pdf


    How do other vampires handle food? First, let’s assume that all vampires must drink blood.Otherwise they wouldn't be vampires.


    I wanted to start with Anne Rice. Her vampires did drink their victims to death, and they also drank the blood of animals when necessary. I can’t remember (and cannot find the book) if they were unable to eat or if they just didn’t wish to. I also cannot remember if they drank the humans out of existence because they couldn't stop or if it was for enjoyment.


    In the Argeneau Series and Rogue Hunter Series by Lyndsay Sands the vampire does not have the digestive process altered that much, I guess because they can eat and drink. These Atlanteans (from Atlantis rather than Atlanta) were created due to the introduction of nanos, small, self-replicating body repairing machines. The Nanos require blood to work. However, the vampires (or as they prefer to be called, Immortals) can eat and drink regular food. It is just that after hundreds of years it becomes a bore, as does sex. However, a renewed interest in both food and sex emerges when the vampire meets his/her human or vampire life mate. These vamps have the power of compulsion and the ability to read minds, except that of their true mate.

    According to their laws, the Argeneau vampires cannot kill humans and they who do are considered rogue and hunted down. Instead, the Argeneau series vamps drink bagged blood provided, quite handily, by their own multinational blood-banking corporation. There are, in this series, a few who are not able to drink the bagged blood. They are allowed to feed from humans.


    In the Love at Stake Series from , Vampires can drink bottled blood, in fact there are many flavored types available as well as “bleer” a blood beer. There are two kinds of vampires: The good guys who drink bottled blood, and they who consider that beneath them. Only the latter continue to prey on and kill humans.They do not seem to consume human food.


    Kate McAllistair’s Dark Ones, once they find their "beloved" (an immortalized life mate) can only drink their blood. Prior to that they do need blood to survive and I believe it comes from humans.


    Enough for this post.  I hope to continue in this vein (tee-hee) for my next post. It is such an interesting topic, but I don't think you wanted to read a dissertation when you logged in.

    Sunday, April 4, 2010

    "Easter" Eggs -- What Is More Paranormal Than The Secret of Life?

    My Dad, gone eleven years now, would have been 82 last week.  His parents were both ethnic Greeks from Turkey, having left in the diaspora written about in Egugenides Middlesex. My mom was Italian-American  of northern Italian parents who left for the golden streets of America.   Gross simplification of the facts there, but to be honest, there is no complicated story because we were never told the real tales.  I did not even know my "Greek" grandparents were technically "Turks" until my mid-thirties: it is not a good thing to be at all Turkish when your father is Greek-Orthodox.  Like a line extending up from Greece to the Artic reaches, many of these traditions overlap with former Soviet-block /Iron Curtain countries.

    So, although this year Easter for Western and Eastern traditions fall on the same day, we usually had Easter twice. For me, Easter was largely about candy, and hardboiled eggs.  We dyed our eggs for Greek Easter with Rit Dye Cardinal Red, although our Armenian friends achieved a deep red with red onion skins.  I guess my family believed in better living through chemistry. On Greek Easter we would get together with all my Dad's side of the family.  Greek family get-togethers have a sense memory of their own that I can almost taste. We always had Lamb, if it was at my Aunt's house it had been roasted into texture of stale, old jujubes.  My Mother's was better; in fact she was better at the Greek dishes than most of my Greek relatives -- I guess she had something to prove.

    left: Viktar Pałściuk http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Belarusian_Easter_Eggs.jpg




    below: Walter J. Pilsak, Waldsassen http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Eierhaerten.jpg


    But ever present were the red eggs.  Minus the lovely designs our eggs were somewhat brighter than these Belarusian examples. God, we ate so many eggs we must have set off sulphur alarms the next day. After our huge meal, we would all take our eggs and do the tapping game (read more about this at: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Egg_tapping).  Whoever had the egg which remained intact went on to the next person but it has been a long time since I sat around the table with my Greek cousins (too many named Peter).  It was thrilling in the pre-video game days.  I was surprised, later, to find that this was a common game to play across many cultures. 


    Tsoureki recipeLike these at left I found on http://www.chiff.com/a/easter-greece.htm, ours were often baked into our Greek Easter bread.  The bread contained a pine flavor from a pine gum we called mastica.  I have theorized it has a wheat strengthening property because the bread had a somewhat cake-like consistency. It may be that Greek wheat was softer than our own hard red wheat here in the States.

    My father, who was very religious, told us that there were many layers to the egg's symbolism:
    • The egg represented the stone that was in front of Christ's tomb
    • It was, being the source of new life a [unfertilized and cooked] symbol of the same.  In Greek class I learned that the Greek word for "egg" was a masculine noun. Go figure. But, can you imagine before there was an understanding of fertility how magical it must have been to see a chick or other animal hatch out of an unbroken sphere? 
    • It also represented the body in the tomb (the yolk entombed in the white). 
    • It also represented a great source of healthy nutrition and was prohibited during Lent. 

    So, like many symbols and festivals, those associated with non-Christian practices were co-opted by the Church and prior meanings were buried or at best supressed.   Maybe prior practices also allowed people to keep some of their practices and beliefs without risking the noose as early Christianity was somewhat brutal.

    For example, "She was dying eggs to use in unholy rites." "No, I was dying eggs to celebrate the rebirth of Christ!"

    Our eggs were red because, the sun was red at dawn and (new) Easter represented a new dawn for humanity, and (old) Spring a new dawn for the earth.  Red was the color of  (new) Christ's blood, Passover blood (Old Testament), the blood of the woman giving birth (old).  Also, for us, living in Upstate New York, Easter was rarely snow free, so any color, especially red, was delightful.

    From About.com "Red eggs (in Greek: kokkina avga, κόκκινα αυγά, pronounced KOH-kee-nah ahv-GHAH) are perhaps the brightest symbol of Greek Easter, representing the blood of Christ and rebirth." http://greekfood.about.com/od/greekcookingtips/ht/redeggs.htm.  They were certainly pretty too look at out Cardinal Red Eggs but heavens alone know what the red dye did to our bodies.  The above citation also tells us how to dye eggs naturally, using onion skins.

    Also, a friend and blog follower shared this with me: http://www.facebook.com/?ref=home#!/notes.php?id=172419479791 .  This is an excellent account of the symbolism of Eggs across time and traditions.


    Is birth any less amazing and miraculous now that we know some of the mysteries behind the emergence of the chick, the egg, the babe from the womb or the blades of grass from the ground?
    I think that the paranormal, lives in this mystery which even as we learn how it works, becomes more mysterious as it hangs onto the most important secret and truth - what animates the egg, whence the spark of life?

    Saturday, April 3, 2010

    Gnome Body Gnows the Trouble I've Seen

    Lovely friends,  it is a fine day here in New England so here I am sitting at my computer thinking about paranormal romance and such.  It is a bit less than ideal!
    I suspect, and hope you are outside, wearing sunblock of course, and are reading this in the evening.

    Look for me several days a week right here; even as the weather warms.  Today, though, the garden calls.  I have an antique garden gnome, so ugly it is guaranteed to scare away bad juju. 

    He is made out of cast iron; I think gnomes work with metals so that may be okay.  But, I know any faeries living nearby won't be too happy with me. His metallic nature also makes him weigh a ton.  That's a good thing as we experience very high winds.

    Interesting how there are similar creatures in most cultures, and including most of the paranormal's demography (or would it be demonography)?

    In the film Twilight, Bella looks through web sites from several cultures and finds evidence of vampires in each.  In Brown's Lost Symbol ancient demonic symbols from around the world retain their meaning to some even today. And, fairy tales from around the world share demons, dragons, witches and characters to numerous to categorize. Shape shifters, faeries, gnomes, dwarfs, witches, and more abound. Even isolated cultures have similar paranormal creatures in their mythology.  Is it evidence of existence,  the human brain's similar explanation for similar stimuli, or something else?

    To paraphrase the bard, there are more things in heaven and earth  than are dreamt of in my cosmology. I better go put him outside to scare some away!

    Friday, April 2, 2010

    Loss and Power in Love

    Well, my Kindle broke and the new Kindle just came.  I cannot express how lost I was without a book! I do have a few technical manuals I am supposed to be reading but - my goodness those real books are so inconvenient.

    That is a bit off topic I guess.

    I was thinking today about a friend with whom I was discussing New Moon (Twilight Saga).  I am going to have to assume that you know the story,or have at least seen one of the films.  New Moon spoilers ahead! As two more "mature" women it is probably hard to recall the angst of teen love.  I do recall it as extremely painful.  I asked my friend if prior to her relationship with her husband she had had any serious relationships. She said she had serious relationships  but she had never lost herself in one as Bella seems to do after Edward leaves her. My friend (really, my friend, not me) said she had  had enough sense of self and family  she could see the relationship didn't have a future .  I am sure she did weep at the end but knowing her I imagine she put it away, dusted her self off and went on her way.

    I did lose myself and would spend months pining and weeping  and believing I was worthless without a boyfriend and especially that one particular boyfriend who would break up, get back together, date others, be committed.  So maybe I can understand the tragic, Cathy-on-the-moors-seeking-Heathcliffe, side of Bella.  I think my friend's way was probably much better.

    But why does Bella lose herself in Edward?  What triggers her becoming so wrapped up?  She seems fairly sure of herself; she knows her parents love her.  She doesn't believe herself extraordinary in any way and seems intent on living a life of mediocrity until she meets Edward.   After Edward leaves she becomes a total zombie for several months feeling betrayed, bereft and any other alliterative descriptor that begins with "be."  Then she enters a relationship where she is the stronger of the two parties.  Jacob is the one wanting her; she has the power. Once again, by turning into a wolf Jacob becomes more extraordinary than her.

    [I have experienced this in paranormal romances more than other stories.  The heroine is dead set against the guy and the next moment she whipping off her panties (not Bella). I suppose it is a device for getting from the necessary tension and antipathy  to that first kiss or the
    bedroom.]


    The later premise is that Bella is mature enough to get married is somewhat dashed by her behavior until she and Edward get back together. Noone can mature that quickly.

     Bella spent a lot of time taking care of her mom and even moves to Forks so her mom will be happy.  She stays out of Charlie's life to a  degree too.  Sh seems to hold herself back from the people who love or like her; except Edward with whom she has a tortured relationship with scant physical contact outside of cuddling on her bed most nights ( a compromise between her era and his).  So she totally immerses herself in Edward, eats, breathes and sleeps him, and when he leaves her pole has gone and she  either sits and ponders or sleeps and screams. She has lost herself by giving her teenage self over to him; her parents don't seem to have any idea as to what they could do or have done to make her stronger; her mom because in this relationship she is the child and Charlie because he is emotionally stuck.  They don't even talk about boys and he doesn't seem to know about her thing with Edward.

    What are your thoughts? Do girls who are not dating vampires still have this experience?