So, a funny thing happened on my way to the to-be-read-pile. I had downloaded a couple of freebies and, though I didn't remember anything about them, I decided to read them. Coincidentally, yesterday's post was about BDSM erotica, they were all erotica with BDSM elements. These stories are all different and probably polarizing so I'm not going to do my usual recommend, recommend highly or MUST READ. I will tell you what I thought and how I felt and that's all it is about.
Then my husband and I sat down to watch A L'AVENTURE, a French movie with sub-titles. We're going to France soon so decided it would be culturally interesting. It wasn't. But, it was also erotic with BDSM. Billed as a sexual exploration it was really an info dump in the form of here's this kind of sex, oh,. tell me about it, let's watch it. It was hard to see actors trying to emote through technical explanations of why being a submissive is the cure for many psychological illness. While we didn't watch the entire film it was becoming apparent that the main female character, Sandrine, was having some imaginary philosophical conversations with a cab driver. We both felt it was a philosophical masturbation by the writer or director. The actors were all beautiful creatures.
Then my husband and I sat down to watch A L'AVENTURE, a French movie with sub-titles. We're going to France soon so decided it would be culturally interesting. It wasn't. But, it was also erotic with BDSM. Billed as a sexual exploration it was really an info dump in the form of here's this kind of sex, oh,. tell me about it, let's watch it. It was hard to see actors trying to emote through technical explanations of why being a submissive is the cure for many psychological illness. While we didn't watch the entire film it was becoming apparent that the main female character, Sandrine, was having some imaginary philosophical conversations with a cab driver. We both felt it was a philosophical masturbation by the writer or director. The actors were all beautiful creatures.
A L'AVENTURE (2009)
Realizing she's unfulfilled, Sandrine (Carole Brana) leaves both her job and her boyfriend, Fred (Jocelyn Quivrin). When she meets Greg (Arnaud Binard) -- a student of psychiatry -- he uses hypnosis to help her embark on a series of increasingly unconventional and mystical erotic experiences. Part of French filmmaker Jean-Claude Brisseau's trilogy of dramas exploring women's sexuality, the film co-stars Lise Bellynck and Estelle Galarme. Netflix blurb
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| Excessica |
Both books were kindle freebies
Taken
by Selena Kitt
paperback 138 pages, 11/14/08
Kindle 265 KB/119Pages 06/30/08
Lizzy's friendship with her older boss, Sarah, turns into something deeper and much more exciting one rainy day after work, and Lizzy finds herself drawn into a world she never knew existed. Sarah has a dominant streak, and as she leads Lizzy into the role of a submissive, the two women become closer than they ever thought possible. But while Sarah, hurt too many times, wears a ring, and tells guys she's "taken," Lizzy knows she secretly longs for a man. Determined to find one for them both to share, Lizzy is just about to give up when a dark, handsome, virile answer shows up right under her nose. Lizzy may think she and Sarah are going to seduce David--but she underestimates their handsome co-worker, and David turns the tables on them both. But will he be able to tame the untameable Sarah? Excessica Web Site (excerpt)
Selena Kitt may not be writing "literary fiction," okay, she definitely isn't writing literary fiction but what she writes is unapologetically and freely, no holds barred erotica. It's usually pretty short so it holds interest for the expected length of time and it is titillating.
This story is about a young girl "class valedictorian," a member of a "good" sorority, a "good" girl who is whiling away the hours over summer break at telemarketing. Her life has little direction or ambition. She is sexually unfulfilled and her boss is going to help her with that.
A short about sexual exploration, first love, and identity. The BDSM presented is very light and pretty much sex toys and blindfolds.
Selena is a pretty prolific author. She is also a mom, an organic gardener and is a publisher (Excessica). She must be a very busy and efficient person!
Selena is a pretty prolific author. She is also a mom, an organic gardener and is a publisher (Excessica). She must be a very busy and efficient person!
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| Ellora's Cave |
Joey W. Hill
Taboo Line/Ellora's Cave
Plus Novel 70,000 to 99,999 words
Kindle 388 KB, November 1, 2009
Paperback 256 pages, July 25, 2008
Taboo Line/Ellora's Cave
Plus Novel 70,000 to 99,999 words
Kindle 388 KB, November 1, 2009
Paperback 256 pages, July 25, 2008
Disclosure: Kindle Freebie when downloaded in February
Book 1 in the Nature of Desire series.
Lauren is a successful doctor with a healthy attitude toward sex, unashamed of her proclivities as a sexual dominant. She wants love and a family, but she's beginning to believe there is no Mr. Right willing to stand by her in sickness and health...and be cuffed, stripped, and smacked with a riding crop.
Then her friend Lisette invites her to spend a long weekend on a private island. It turns out Lisette can't come with her, but Lauren opts to go anyway, with no one for company but Joshua, the island caretaker, and his visiting friend, Marcus. Though both men are beautiful, it is Joshua that catches Lauren's attention, and not just because Marcus prefers men.
Something in Josh's stormy eyes calls to her. When Marcus facilitates a game of submission and control between the three of them that will last throughout the weekend, Lauren embraces the opportunity. Josh overwhelms her with his willingness to submit to her body's desires, but her heart wants to get to the secrets behind those eyes. She is going to have to tear down his defenses and make him give her everything. And this is one Mistress who doesn't take no for an answer...
Ellora's Cave
After my post yesterday about BDSM, I was interested in seeing how another writer handles a longer story about BDSM, except this story is much more about the relationships that develop over the course of an intense weekend. It's provocative and sexy but there's not a ton of sex.
The story is well and thoughtfully written. A story written with sensitivity and intelligence that takes you much more down the emotional road of two people who are recovering from disastrous, but different relationships. It also tries to explain the people in the world of D/s or "The Game." It takes place on the perfect private tropical island; an artists' retreat with only five houses.
Lauren goes there to get away with an old friend but the friend can't make it so Lauren ends up alone, for a few pages anyway. What ensues is one of those intensely emotional experiences that bring people together in a good way (no plane crash or shipwreck) and that mostly happen in books.
I was really taken with some of the internal monologue and discussions. One of the characters, Marcus, is a bit brash and felt kind of obnoxious. Lauren is trying to recapture the self-confidence necessary to be a sexually dominant in the BDSM scene. It's a tough road back from a bad breakup. And, Josh is so scarred emotionally it's a wonder he can get out of bed. There's also a dying white elephant and perfect sand and surf.
It's a bit like Fantasy Island, if it really existed it would be awesome.
The BDSM is presented in a much less vicious way than some other stories. But, as one commenter said in response to my post yesterday the scene is not a substitute for therapy. Here one character did do therapy and fired the therapist for treating her kink like a disease. Josh, who was truly betrayed and whose BDSM experience nearly killed two people probably would have benefited from therapy. It's hard to imagine that one weekend would of cathartic sex would cure him, but he might not hate himself so much. To be fair, the Dom recognizes his problem.
One thing I thought interesting is how subs can actually use emotion to dominate their Mistress or Master. In this way they are exerting another kind of dominance on the one who is supposed to be dominating and cherishing the submissive.
HOLDING THE CARDS was an especially interesting contrast to SAFEWORD: MATTE which I looked at yesterday.
The story is well and thoughtfully written. A story written with sensitivity and intelligence that takes you much more down the emotional road of two people who are recovering from disastrous, but different relationships. It also tries to explain the people in the world of D/s or "The Game." It takes place on the perfect private tropical island; an artists' retreat with only five houses.
Lauren goes there to get away with an old friend but the friend can't make it so Lauren ends up alone, for a few pages anyway. What ensues is one of those intensely emotional experiences that bring people together in a good way (no plane crash or shipwreck) and that mostly happen in books.
I was really taken with some of the internal monologue and discussions. One of the characters, Marcus, is a bit brash and felt kind of obnoxious. Lauren is trying to recapture the self-confidence necessary to be a sexually dominant in the BDSM scene. It's a tough road back from a bad breakup. And, Josh is so scarred emotionally it's a wonder he can get out of bed. There's also a dying white elephant and perfect sand and surf.
It's a bit like Fantasy Island, if it really existed it would be awesome.
The BDSM is presented in a much less vicious way than some other stories. But, as one commenter said in response to my post yesterday the scene is not a substitute for therapy. Here one character did do therapy and fired the therapist for treating her kink like a disease. Josh, who was truly betrayed and whose BDSM experience nearly killed two people probably would have benefited from therapy. It's hard to imagine that one weekend would of cathartic sex would cure him, but he might not hate himself so much. To be fair, the Dom recognizes his problem.
One thing I thought interesting is how subs can actually use emotion to dominate their Mistress or Master. In this way they are exerting another kind of dominance on the one who is supposed to be dominating and cherishing the submissive.
HOLDING THE CARDS was an especially interesting contrast to SAFEWORD: MATTE which I looked at yesterday.




























